Posts tagged Confidence
We Are All Ice Cubes

Have you been feeling intimidated by others lately?  Or perhaps you’ve been on your high horse feeling all superior to those around you.  Well, it’s helpful to remember what author Brian Weiss has said:  “Think of all humans as ice-cubes.  Some are perfectly shaped.  Some are square.  Some are round.  Some are chipped.  Some are large and some are small.  But if you heat up any of the ice-cubes, they ALL melt into the same shape and form.  We are immortal.  We don’t die.  We are our souls.” 

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Are You Worried About What Others Are Thinking About You?

Do you ever catch yourself worrying a bit too much about what others think of you.  Remember what Dr. Daniel Amen: calls, “The 18, 40, 60 rule.”.  Basically, it states:  ‘At 18, you are worried about what everybody is thinking about you.  At 40, you don’t give a darn about what anyone is thinking about you.  At 60, you realize that nobody’s been thinking about you at all.’ 

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Act As If

Looking for something novel to do this upcoming weekend?  Here’s an exercise outlined in the book, “The Success Principles.”  It’s called ‘The Millionaire Cocktail Party’.  Here is what you do:  spend an evening where everyone at the party acts as if they have already accomplished all their big goals and have achieved millionaire status.  Stay in character all night.” 

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